Identification
- Samsara Goutel
- Mar 2
- 2 min read
Why I Require Photo ID Held to Your Face – No Exceptions
Let’s be clear from the start: I do not entertain time wasters, fantasy bookers, fake names, or games.
If you wish to interact with me — whether that’s by email, enquiry, or booking — you will be required to provide a valid photo ID held up to your face. No exceptions. No blurred images. No cropped corners. No “I’m too private for that.”
This is a firm boundary.
Why This Policy Exists
I run my business professionally. That means I prioritise:
My safety
My time
Serious clients only
Mutual respect
Legal compliance
Unfortunately, the industry attracts people who think it’s acceptable to hide behind fake details, send endless emails with no intention to book, or attempt to manipulate boundaries.
That does not work here.
Requiring a government-issued photo ID held next to your face ensures:
You are who you say you are
You are of legal age
You are serious about booking
You respect my screening process
If you are genuine, this should not be an issue.
Discretion & Confidentiality
Let me address the obvious concern: discretion.
Your information is handled with strict confidentiality. I do not share, sell, or misuse client information. Screening is for safety purposes only and remains private.
Serious clients understand that discretion goes both ways.
If You Hesitate, We’re Not a Match
If you find yourself uncomfortable with providing ID, that is absolutely your choice. However, it also means we are not a suitable match.
I am not the provider for:
Anonymous time wasters
“Maybe next week” browsers
Men who expect access without accountability
Anyone trying to test boundaries
I value my time. I value my peace. I value my safety.
How to Book Properly
If you are serious:
Send a respectful introduction.
Provide your valid photo ID held clearly to your face.
Include your booking details (date, time, duration, location).
Wait patiently for confirmation.
That’s it. Simple, direct, professional.
If you can follow those steps, we will get along just fine.
If not, please save us both the time.
Serious enquiries only.
Thank you
Samsara Goutel.
